10/23/2025

Ambition is the key to success, Persistence is the vehicle you arrive in.” - Bill Bradley

Do not fear failure, but rather fear not trying.” - Roy T. Bennett

Every one of us, at some point in our lives, has had a dream; a goal we aspire to achieve. Whether it’s pursuing a higher level of education, starting a new business, or contributing meaningfully to an organization, our dreams shape our ambition and give direction to our efforts.

Sometimes, as we all know, the path to achieving those dreams is rarely smooth. Obstacles, detours, and setbacks are inevitable. What separates those who reach their goals from those who don’t often comes down to one word: persistence.

In my time as Mayor of Darien, I have had goals I have been passionate about achieving, and while success or failure is never the result of one factor alone, I can say with certainty that persistence, my willingness to keep pursuing my dream, even when the going got tough, played a crucial role in my success.

Just last week, I was reminded of the power of persistence in a truly unexpected way. A young man named Alfred Park, just thirteen years old, came into City Hall and asked to speak with me. One of our front office staff members stepped into my office to let me know that there was a young man who was anxious to see me regarding a business idea. At that point, I did not realize that I would be meeting a thirteen-year old Boy Scout regarding a business idea.

I soon learned that Alfred was on a mission; he had developed a plan to sell holiday wreaths, handcrafted items and coffees, and he was looking for guidance, and a bit of help from yours truly. As I sat and listened to him, I was struck not just by his well-thought-out plan, but by his initiative. How many thirteen-year-olds have the moxie to walk into City Hall in order to see the Mayor and push a business idea? His determination and self-belief were impressive, but what stood our most was his persistence; his willingness to pursue his goal without hesitation; to push forward despite any fear or uncertainty.

I thought to myself that this young man, Alfred Park will likely be successful, not just in this venture, but in life. His actions reflect a mindset that does not give up, it finds a way, and keeps showing up until he reaches his goal.

Alfred’s story is a reminder to all of us, that whether we are working toward a long-held dream or facing a fresh challenge, we must find the persistence within ourselves to keep going. Whatever obstacles arise, and they will, it is persistence that turns intention into reality.

So, let Alfred’s example inspire all of us; whatever your dream is, large or small, keep at it, keep showing up, keep pushing forward. If you are curious about Alfred’s business plan, I will be more than happy to share it; just send me an email at jmarchese@darienil.gov.

Let’s all find that spark of persistence – because sometimes, that is all it takes!